It seems nothing has changed since the 90’s. I pulled my highly gifted child out of a private school because they had no clue about what he needed. Neither did I at the time. I homeschooled him to college. He’s an Aerospace Engineer now. I write about what I did at my Substack, here’s a link to a post about discovering giftedness. https://collettegreystone.substack.com/p/six-homeschooling-is-my-child-gifted
It seems nothing has changed since the 90’s. I pulled my highly gifted child out of a private school because they had no clue about what he needed. Neither did I at the time. I homeschooled him to college. He’s an Aerospace Engineer now. I write about what I did at my Substack, here’s a link to a post about discovering giftedness. https://collettegreystone.substack.com/p/six-homeschooling-is-my-child-gifted
For a parent-friendly book focused on the differences and similarities between children identified as gifted and their typically developing peers, I recommend our 2022 book The development of the high ability child: Psychological perspectives on giftedness (Routledge) https://www.routledge.com/The-Development-of-the-High-Ability-Child-Psychological-Perspectives-on/Miller-Matthews-Dixson/p/book/9780367458027